Important note: I’m doing a small turn on the haunches for the start date of the Whole Horse Apprenticeship and have moved it to September 15th! When feeling into my heart, I was called to spend the next six months honing this beautiful program into even more of a valuable experience for you – online programs are a tricky thing, and I want this one to feel like a connected relationship, one where you feel excited, engaged, and you get a chance to really understand fully the process and steps involved to engage with the learning fully. More details on the changes soon and the payment page will be re-opened for May 1st! Thanks for your understanding and support! xo Alexa

Dearest horse lover,

Over the past sixteen years I’ve worked with thousands of women and their horses as an Equine Sport Therapist, Animal communicator, and facilitator. I’ve also been in an ever-evolving relationship with my rather opinionated mare Diva (and she suits her name perfectly). And I’d like to think I’ve learned a thing or two. 

What I have witnessed more times than I can count is the deep desire in humans to understand their horses. The desire to understand the real needs of the being you have chosen to share a good chunk of your life with. The desire to find love, connection, fun and purpose here in this relationship that you have spent a life-time dreaming about.

And sadly, so often this dream is not the reality. More often than not, there are communication breakdowns, conflict and challenge. It may feel like you have a million people telling you how to “fix” our horse, how to “make” them listen, how to get them to “respect” you. Some part of you may have the sense that what you’ve been doing is not working, and is possibly making things worse. I’ve been in this place, brought to tears by struggles and conflict with my horse and not knowing how to move forward, employing my out-dated horsemanship tools with no success, jumping from trainer to trainer, and creating progressively more stress and unhappiness in my horse.

There are countless factors involved in creating a horse-human partnership that is harmonious, one that feels like a dance. My mare Diva and I were in conflict far more than I would like to admit at the beginning of our relationship (we’ve been together 16 years now), with only tiny fleeting glimpses of relaxation and harmony, and you know what? I spent a lot of time questioning myself, my methods and what I was doing there in the first place.

The trick? I had to fall in love all over again. With horses. I had to learn how to be a loving, emotionally fit, communicative partner to my horse. With a lot of heart-centred work, growth in our communication, learning, and humility, we found our groove and remain besties in and out of the saddle to this day. That doesn’t mean that every day together is perfect and easy, but we’ve developed a tool-kit that allows us to navigate the bumps in the road and the emotions that naturally arise, and understand each other’s perspective. 

The great news is, that just like Diva and I, there is hope and lots of it. We live at an amazing time, a time where the tools, strategies and skills you need to create the kind of horse-human partnership you dream of are in existence and just waiting to be learned.

My aim in the Apprenticeship is to distill the past sixteen years of my first-hand learning and growth (and of course, my countless mistakes) and infuse it into eight transformative months, while adding in the invaluable wisdom of almost 30 of my esteemed colleagues. 

November 15th, 2016 marked the completion of the very first Whole Horse Apprenticeship. I am happy to share that it was a great success, so much so that I ran it in 2017, 2018, 2019, and now in 2020, each time with more horse lovers from around the world! We’re becoming quite a community! 

Many of you may have already worked with me, or I’ve worked with your horse, or you’ve read my stuff, listened to my podcast or you know me from somewhere. That’s awesome.

If you don’t know me from a hole in the wall, you will soon realize that I’m a little, well, unorthodox. I’m rather goofy, a little/a lot woo-woo, I love depth and I like swearing a lot. But more than anything, I love horses and the exploration of the connection between horses and their people. A connection based on trust, communication and relaxation, where the horses are relaxed, balanced, healthy, willing and full of life, and the rider is intuitive, trusting and having an awesome time.

From one horse lover to another, I’m excited to invite you into this community for an immersion in horse-filled goodness. Read on to find out more.

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For any horse lovers out there looking to expand their knowledge, or open doors to career opportunities in an equine field but unsure where to get started, check this out!! Alexa is an amazing teacher, equine sport therapist, horse owner and is involved with a fantastic community of professionals you’ll want to know and learn from. 



Do you ever find yourself wondering…

  • if your horse is as healthy and vital as they could be?
  • if your horse is receiving the nutrients and supplements they need to feel their best?
  • if your saddle is fitting, hooves are balanced and your horse is comfortable and pain-free?
  • if you are as balanced, centred and strong as possible in the saddle both physically and emotionally?
  • if your horse sees you as a safe and trustworthy partner?
  • if your horse is happy in their current environment and with their current work?
  • how you and your horse can feel more safe, comfortable and relaxed?
  • why your horse is in your life and what they might have to teach you?
  • why you are being challenged by your horse and how to move through it?
  • what the more “spiritual” nature of your relationship is, and how to find out?

If you answered yes to a good number of the questions above, it would seem you’re in the right place! 

I’d love to invite you to join me for the Whole Horse Apprenticeship, an incredible opportunity to immerse yourself in an exploration of all of the aspects of the horse-human relationship with a small group of dedicated horse women just like you.

How does it work?

The Whole Horse Apprenticeship happens (almost) entirely online! After my experience running the course online for the past three years, I realized that it is not only possible but deeply connecting (despite the distance) and a great way to bring horse people around the world together.

Here’s the almost – There will be an optional 3-day retreat with a equine body work focus with Equine Sport Therapist Breanne Ellison for all participants in the Apprenticeship here at Firefly Farm in the Cowichan Valley. This allows participants to get hands on with the herd at the farm.

Other than this retreat (which is optional), the entire course content will be fully accessible online: 

  • 2 online courses from myself (The Modern Day Cowgirl Bootcamp & Kinetic Communication Online)
  • 24 pre-recorded webinars with expert instructors
  • 4 live webinars with special guests
  • 4  live Q & A webinars with yours truly at the start of each of the four modules
  • 12 rider specific body autonomy workouts with strength and conditioning coach Garrett Seibel
  • unlimited email access to me for questions and support
  • weekly emails with information, inspiration, and curated content
  • 1-on-1 Skype Energy Work Session (30 minutes) for you and your horse
  • and much more…(I love surprises!)

In working together I have three goals for you:

Goal #1: a healthy, content horse who is happy in their environment, in their job, and in their connection to you, and is open to expressing their needs through healthy and clear communication.

Goal #2: a relaxed, effective human (that would be you!) who has the tools, presence, awareness and understanding to work effectively with whatever comes up in the moment, from a physical issue to a behavioural challenge to an emergency situation.

Goal #3: a communication-rich, loving relationship. One in which both your horse and you feel able to express, to grow and to open up into your incredible potential in the saddle, on the ground and in the world.

From start to finish, this immersion takes you through a powerful journey to achieve these goals and more. Because we’ll be expanding what you believed to be possible and letting the horses do the teaching, all while discovering and growing your own gifts, strength, confidence and innate value.

The Whole Horse Apprenticeship was a fantastic 8 month journey and completely exceeded my expectations in every possible way. The well structured program had a wealth of excellent content to learn from and with so many topics covered throughout the course, it was great to be able to pick and choose areas of focus to fit with my particular equestrian interests. The guest instructors were so generous in sharing their expertise adding even more goodness to this already brilliant course. Alexa is an exceptionally talented and intuitive mentor whom I felt so privileged to have the opportunity to learn from and I look forward to continuing my learning journey through her trainings in the coming months.



This Apprenticeship is a great fit for you if…

  • your relationship with your horse(s) is one of the most important in your life.
  • you are fascinated by this partnership. It’s a source of deep joy and fulfillment and sometimes, frustration, grief, and confusion.
  • you often feel like an outsider in your horse community, perhaps judged or criticized for doing things differently with your horse, and you crave a community who gets it.
  • you are on a seemingly constant search for understanding about why you are drawn to horses in the first place and why you found yourself in relationship with a particular one. You’re constantly wondering about how to be a better and more helpful horse person.
  • you get the concept of heart horse and horses as medicine and are excited to learn more.
  • you would love to experience a more relaxed and connected relationship with your horse
  • you are drawn to all things spiritual and connecting, you love exploring your woo-woo side!



I’ve called this the Whole Horse Apprenticeship for a few very important reasons.

max_9999_26After twelve fascinating and sometimes frustrating years with my mare Diva, I have realized that there are several, often overlooked, components of the horse-human relationship that are essential to its success.

The first component is our understanding of relationships as a whole.

When we initially arrive at the front door of our obsession with horses, we really have no clue what we’re in for, as is the case with all of our relationships. There is an expectation of perfection often and thankfully paired with a deep love and longing that we don’t really understand, but, that keeps us engaged long after our dream of having the perfect horse has fallen away.

Very often in relationship, we long to be completed, for something or someone to make up for our perceived failings. In such a relationship, disappointment is unavoidable and resentment is guaranteed – we are always keeping score. Wholeness is the experience in relationship where both parties come to the relationship knowing themselves – there is nothing to complete. This is our aim with our time together – to move yourself, your horse and your relationship with each other towards this experience of wholeness and interdependence, rather than co-dependence.

What does this look like on the practical level?

A healthy, content horse, a relaxed, effective rider, a communication-rich, loving relationship. More connection than you can even imagine in this moment.

The second component, is the understanding that everything is connected, and the exploration of how.

We begin to understand how everything works together as a whole and how it can work even better. Throughout our time together we’ll be addressing the inter-connection between…

  • the structural system of ourselves and our horses (bones, muscles, fascia) and how to work effectively with these components to promote circulation, range of movement and comfort.
  • the unique and connected internal systems that determine the well-being of our horses and ourselves and how to easily discover and correct imbalances and maintain harmony.
  • the cycles of the elements and the meridians, and how they relate to each other, the physical system and to overall well-being.
  • the chakra systems of the body and the areas that the harmony of each individual chakra affects, including endocrine glands, emotional well-being, depth of connection and energy levels.  
  • your horse and you, and the many undiscovered and awe-inspiring levels of this relationship.

And the final component of wholeness is support and collaboration – and in this immersion you will have it in spades. Including more than 24 of my mentors, colleagues and friends as guest instructors helping to make this experience one of a kind…


Twenty Five More Reasons to take part…

I am bringing together more than twenty five of my mentors, esteemed colleagues and dear friends to share their understanding and wisdom.

They’ll be sharing both live at the optional retreat and online via both pre-recorded and live webinar about equine health and well-being, rider awareness, hoof care, saddle fit, body work techniques, aromatherapy, vibrational remedies, 5 element theory, conscious horsemanship, trauma-informed horsemanship, equine behaviour, animal communication, meditation, chakras, heart connection, grief work, and much more. These amazing teachers will be joining us on pre-recorded/live webinars throughout our 8 months together (all will be available via replay). I will be releasing much more about each of them and what they will be sharing as we come closer to our time together.

It’ll look a little like this…

  • 24 pre-recorded webinars (60min) with Guest Experts from around the world made available to you throughout the modules. Watch the sample webinar with Lily Fawn sharing her recipe for the a kick-butt healing salve for horses and riders above to get an idea of the format!
  • 4 live webinars (60min) with Guest Experts (one per module) – including Hannah Weston, author and founder of Connection Training, Equine Researcher Emily Kieson and more!
  • 4 live webinars (60min) with Alexa (introducing and mapping out each of the four modules)
  • 12 rider specific body autonomy workouts with strength and conditioning coach Garrett Seibel

Pre-recorded Webinars with: 


Webinar with Lily Fawn



Alexa is a very knowledgeable, honest, positive person, with so much knowledge everybody needs to know and understand to take proper care of their animals. It seems to be all about horses, but in reality it is all about us as well. She always goes the extra mile to make sure everybody is taken care of and happy. I learned so much in her course and being more independent from a vet is very important when you live a bit secluded, so being able to help your animals right away is pretty big. A course I would recommend to any animal lover and owner!


I absolutely loved my time in the apprenticeship. I will definitely be following along next year. The amount of resources we got we’re amazing, way more then I expected. I really enjoy all the experts that are brought forth to share. I loved that embedded in each week there were many different pieces of information and topics covered. This made it great when one of the subjects wasn’t of interest or something that I wasn’t ready to dive into, there were still other topics to learn about that week. (Hopefully that makes sense) I especially LOVED how many different herbs we focused on. The FB group was a great idea and awesome to see other people’s thoughts.


Here’s a recap of what’s included in the Whole Horse Apprenticeship (online)…

  • 2 online courses from myself (value $200)
  • 24 pre-recorded webinars with expert instructors (priceless!)
  • 4 live webinars with special guest instructors (one each module)
  • 4 webinars with yours truly at the start of each of the four modules
  • 12 rider specific body autonomy workouts with strength and conditioning coach Garrett Seibel
  • Email access to Alexa for questions and support
  • weekly emails with information and inspiration
  • a 1-on-1 Energy Work Session on Zoom for you and your horse and much more (value $100)
  • and much more!
  • Surprises (because I love surprises)

Does this feel like a fit for you?

The sign-up page for the September 15th start will open on May 1st! If you’d like to be emailed with all the program details as soon as they become available please email Alexa

A few other essential things…

  • You’ll have the opportunity to join in for a 3-day hands-on body work and energy work focused retreat here at Firefly Farm (exclusive to Apprenticeship participants) facilitated by Alexa and Equine Sport Therapist Breanne Ellison. The dates and pricing for this retreat will be posted in early 2020 and it will be packed with goodness.
  • As a bonus during our time together, you will have the opportunity to partake in several additional and related workshops at Firefly Farm in the Cowichan Valley with esteemed colleagues for a reduced Apprenticeship (you’re a VIP!) rate.
  • My intention is to make this course as accessible as possible – meaning I am open to creative payment options and strategies. Just ask and we’ll figure it out! A creative payment strategy was exactly how I managed to pay my way through Equine Therapy School and I want to pass that kindness forward.
  • There are limited spaces available for this Apprenticeship – I would like to keep the group small so that everyone gets their needs met and we have lots of time for questions, queries and wonderful tangents.
  • If you sign up and then it realize, this is not right for me, I offer a full refund up until 4 weeks before we begin . After that, I can refund everything but a $100 service charge. Once we begin, you’re committed barring unforseen circumstances.


This is our fifth year together! Which means a few things…

  1. The group will be small and intimate (only 20 spots available) and our online community will be inclusive of the WHA groups from previous years (lots of knowledge here!). This year we will be getting off FB and onto our own private easy-to-access forum!
  2. There will be one-on-one time with Alexa including unlimited email access (or if you live close-by you can come by for tea) for questions.
  3. Each year things become smoother and more user friendly than ever, more fun and fascinating than ever and more than likely (fingers crossed!), more full than ever of horse lovers around the world.
  4. I’ve stuffed a ridiculous amount into this. I have a habit of this. Someday I will probably heal the over-compensator/giver in me and trim it way down. But for now, it is stuffed full of so much goodness it’s hard to even tell you about it all. It’s also still lifetime access, which is nuts (at least so says my business coach).
  5. I love magic. And magic will happen in our 8 months together. If you’re not really into magical times and cool and out-there stuff happening with horses, this experience is probably not for you. It’s gonna get woo-woo!



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Do I need a horse to participate? 

No, happily you don’t. Any one who loves horses and wants to build their connection with them can participate, whether you’re just starting down the path or you’re a seasoned expert. Everyone will learn and grow.

Is there any in-person events?

Yes! Equine Sport Therapist Breanne Ellison and I will be facilitating a 3-day optional Apprenticeship retreat focusing on manual techniques and energy work for horses here at beautiful Firefly Farm in the Cowichan Valley (on Vancouver Island in Canada). Dates, pricing, and details will be made available at the program start.

When do I pay by and what about refunds? 

Great question. In order to run this program viably I need at least 10 people registered and committed with deposits paid by August 15, 2020. When it comes to refunds, here’s how it works. If, for some reason, you need to back out between August 15th and our September 15th start date, you will receive all but $100 of your payment back including deposit (I do this because I will have purchased necessary products at this point). Before August 15th you’ll receive a full refund. Once the course begins on September 15th, no refunds are possible (barring emergency).